Hi Lily
I just remembered something after I read your story.
One time when my Son said something to his father (I do not recall what it was) and my husband took a standing long pole lamp and tried to hold it in his neck :((

Sorry you have to go through this horrible life you had 😞
I am happy for you now that you do not have to put up with him anymore 👏 and for being strong too :))

Thank you for answering 🤗
Take care of yourself and your little Angel (Granddaughter ) that saved your life .