Having been married to someone similar for 43 years I understand your feelings. As my divorce proceeded I slowly realized he did not have the power to say what would happen. The law and the courts decide. Don’ give up anything you are entitled to! He can not make you stay unless you let him. Take your power back. It was eye opening to see him realize he had no control over me any longer. The worst thing is to talk to him about the situation. If you have a lawyer let them do the talking. Don’t allow him to bully you. Knowledge is power. Learn your rights and don’t give any of them away. Stay strong. You can do this.