God, I really hate that men can be so stereotypical. What a piece of garbage. It obviously is not personal because he doesn’t care who he hurts. To put your daughter to position to have to look at her father that way, to harm you in that way, the way that society would view it… he is beyond selfish. I can’t imagine any of his fellow employees find it to be too respectful.

I’m sure that this young girl knew that he was in a relationship and didn’t care. I’m so sorry for what they have done to you. At least you can hold your head up high and spend time with your family, work on making yourself happy and being selfish as well.

I know they’re taking up room in your head and I don’t blame you, how could it not. But if it helps at all, they are both going to live in a hell that they created. She’s always gonna wonder if he’s cheating, she can never quit her job, because now she knows that that’s where he finds his mistresses. I would assume with that level of age difference, there’s some financial gain in it for her? If so, he knows that she’ll leave him for a wealthier man because she’s just in it for the money. Not only will they never be happy together, but every lesson they’ve learned from this affair will haunt them. When his partner tells him some thing that he once used as a lie in your relationship while he was having this affair, he’s going to wonder if they’re having an affair. And same thing with her, she’s destroyed her own happiness because now she knows how affairs work, how easy they can analyze that are told to accomplish it.

You’ve participated in the relationship and done your part, you’re a healthy person that doesn’t look outside of the relationship. I’m sure you’re grieving, I imagine the grief will end. And you will be able to live a healthy happy fulfilled life.