It may just be me. But I'm not sure I could ever trust someone after infidelity - no matter the circumstances. However, if you feel counseling could help. Then I encourage you to re-embrace your best friend. But you know what they say!
We are just taking it one day at a time and really enjoying each other's company. But I cannot get past the lack of trust. I'm expecting him to do the same things as before at every turn. We are going to start marriage counseling and I hope that helps. I want to believe we can make this work but I know I'm holding back a bit, just waiting for the sh*t to hit the fan again.
Thank you for the advice!