I’m in a similar situation but my husband has blamed it on his mental health saying he’s depressed and mentally exhausted and has tried with me too many times. One minute he’s saying he loves me and it doesn’t feel right and the next he’s cold and nasty saying he is done and can’t take the toxicity anymore. His mental health has now affected mine and I’m having panic attacks all while trying to stay strong for our two girls who one is only 6 months. But he doesn’t care and says right now he just needs to focus on getting himself better. I’m devastated as he’s just turned our world upside down and is blaming everything on me. I feel like he’s trying to punish me for the resentment he has towards me.