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Re: I just cant anymore

Consider taking more control of your finances. If you are the only one working, why is he deciding who to lend money to? I also think the fact that he’s unemployed is the key to his depression—he’s lost his purpose. While it’s important to take care of you, helping him get a job will help his self esteem, lighten your load and ensure you’re not on the hook for spousal support.