Thank you. I'm just so lost. We went to a marriage counselor, and she looked me dead in my eyes and said, "At least he didn't have sex with her" like my hurt shouldn't be so bad. I'm afraid that if I do leave, I'm blowing this whole thing out of proportion since he said it was a juvenile convo. But I dont trust him when he tells me that. The counselor also told me that if we divorce our son, will fall through the cracks. I'm just so afraid that if I say I want a divorce.. all the heartache and our lives turning upside down is all on my shoulders and my son will hate me..
What the F—- kind of counsellor are you seeing? Horrible to that about your child. Omg. Report this person. How unethical. Your son will be ok. You children adapt easier than older (teens esp) do.
What does your gut say? Follow your gut. Put him on notice. Try couples therapy. If you still cant rebuild the trust then make a plan to leave. Start saving in cash. You are strong and will set a positive example for your son
You need to move on because it will never change. I was stuck in the same horror when I found my husband being obsessed with his coworker. Not sure if they were even sleeping behind my back but they were very fond of each other and my husband didn't has a slightest remorse of what he was putting me through.
For me an emotional affair is cheating and my trust was completely broken when I found about my husband and coworker doing that. Yes it breaks your trust and I would never be able to trust them again for their words as what they say.
It would be more number of times if you stayed in the relationship and your spouse would think you are fine with what he's doing so get out of it.
Your son would be completely fine with you coming out of it trust me. The kids of today know more than what we have seen and they do understand. If your spouse wants to stay in touch with the kid after separation then allow it but don't get involved again and forgive him.
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