He moved to the other side of the country. We have kids together and have been married for 25 years. We talk when we need to, but do not have just friendly chats. I think after everything, I deserve better than a text message and not during my work day. Did I figure we would divorce? Yes. We’ve been separated for a while now. All along, I have asked for counseling. Clearly, he wants a divorce. That’s not the surprise. It’s the lack of decency in how he told me. That is what is bothering me on top of the hurt.