Excellent gift for you!! Enjoy your holidays, enjoy your FREEDOM! No feeling sorry for him, it was his choice, what a "lovely" life he has, and what a TRULY amazing life is now yours!
SS, you are so right! He is her problem now, and if the two of them are hideously bad for one another, so much the better, LOL! Once he cottons on to what a horrible mistake he made (which I give it six months or less ), well, tough noogies cause it's already too late.
You just gave me hope. The woman my ex left me for apparently is the "perfect woman" size 5, that can't cook or clean. Now I can look forward to something in the long run. Thank you