SS, you are so right! He is her problem now, and if the two of them are hideously bad for one another, so much the better, LOL! Once he cottons on to what a horrible mistake he made (which I give it six months or less ), well, tough noogies cause it's already too late.
You just gave me hope. The woman my ex left me for apparently is the "perfect woman" size 5, that can't cook or clean. Now I can look forward to something in the long run. Thank you