I loved and love my stbx however, he wanted out of the relationship. He wanted his freedom to come and go where ever, whenever and with whoever he wanted. He has totally cut me out of his life completely. It has been little over 5 months and I am so heartbroken. I would give anything to have him back but, I have to let that go and try and move forward with my life. I can't wait for the day for him to reach out to me because that day may never come. And I need to learn to let go of my sadness and be happy again.

My STBX turned into the scorned woman. He can't stop blaming for anything and everything that goes wrong in his life. Even though we longer are together and he did leave to be with another man's wife I am still the root of his problems. I decided a not to play his games any more. I do expect respect and of course he does not like that. I have always been his door mat and now that I ask for respect he has trouble with that.

My ex refused to take any blame for our failed marriage. He cheated, lied and took advantage of my love for him..he can go straight to hell. I wasted 11 years of my life trying to make our marriage work. If my ex were to call or come to my hone asking for another chance I would laugh him right out the door.
He chose the path his life is taking now.

I spend 20 plus yrs with this man. Women coming in and out every 3-4yrs until I decided enough was enough. Now that I am trying to stand up to him, he started calling me names and belittling me in front of the kids. I won't stand for that and it hurts him and throws the money card at me, since he is still supporting me. He does give me extra than what he is suppose to give me, but I did not ask him to, but I will not take his abuse any more. I am standing for myself and my kids from now own.