I spend 20 plus yrs with this man. Women coming in and out every 3-4yrs until I decided enough was enough. Now that I am trying to stand up to him, he started calling me names and belittling me in front of the kids. I won't stand for that and it hurts him and throws the money card at me, since he is still supporting me. He does give me extra than what he is suppose to give me, but I did not ask him to, but I will not take his abuse any more. I am standing for myself and my kids from now own.