You say talk to him again? You've talked to him about this or similar issues before? I wouldn't want to tell you what you should do, but if it were me you bet I'd be heading to the police. I tell Jerk that he left and he no longer gets to control me. And I hold him to that in every way possible. So, yep, I'd head to the police. Who knows what else he's doing??? Good luck with this.

Been there, ex bugged my phone, computer and house.

He didnt have to be in same room or near my phone, he called a seperate device and simply listened in. How he got my texts I dont know but he did.

I wish I had gone to the police now, I strongly advise you to go to the police from experience.

Do you know what kind of software and how did it get on your phone? Do you know what to look for to see if someone has something on your phone? Please let me know?

I agree POLICE, POLICE, POLICE. That is stalking. How creepy. Take care.