Sorry it was a lot longer than I thought. I am quite windy sometimes
As angry as I am with my ex, I have my kids with me tonight and the rest of teh weekend so that puts me in a better mood.
Okay so they are fighting, tired from getting up at 6am all week for school and driving me NUTS right now but I all in all it makes me happy that they are here with me

Yeah, I'm made of money. Any time we are blessed to spend time with our kids is a good time. I drop everything to have them near me. Keep us posted...

The Flea, thinks because we were together for 20yrs he has the right to come and demand what he and Big Foot want in that moment. I have put my foot down several times and I have been told, I am a poor excuse of a mother, and a poor excuse of a woman that could not keep a man by her side, but on the flip side at least my kids do live with me, and want to be with me, unlike Big Foot's kid. So I have told The Flea, to ask Big Foot to come and teach to be the kind of mother and woman she is. That just gets The Flea mad.

Yep, I get the same treatment from W.K. (finally a nickname that sticks - White Knight, for the complex that made him pick the Beast over me, LOL!) -- months of no contact, then phone calls/texts with ultimatums and "if you don't do X, then I will do Y, and so you had better do X", none of which is covered in our decree.

He's threatened to throw our oldest son out more than once because of Junior Beast's pathological lying, since, you see, JB can do no wrong and "she's a girl and she is seeennnnsitiiiiiiivvvve" (giant load of sh*te). The girl routinely makes **** up to get him, and his siblings, in trouble.

This is the same girl who invites her (male) friends over while the so-called adults are out, threatens the other kids with bodily harm (and MEANS IT)if they dare even think about saying anything about it, and then blames anything that is missing on my youngest son.

Ex called last night and told me he wasn't getting the kids today because the weather is to bad. My oldest son just did a little "Hum" and walked away. He is tired of the excuses as well.
No matter what happens he will find something to blame his short comings on, even weather. He must be getting old, once upon a time he would drive in the middle of a blizzard to go have a shot of Jack at the bar, now a few flakes and he can't come see the boys. The weather is even challenging his own words from Friday's call "the boys are my life I would do anything for them"
Maybe we are living in bikini bottom and it's opposite day? (ah the wonderful spongebob, ugh)

I know Jerk is so wrapped up into himself he believes his own lies and excuses. I truly don't think he's capable of seeing the reality of his shortcomings. I've helped by pointing them out to him, however.

Don't you just love the fact you can actually throw their words in their face and then they don't have anything to say. I know I have giving the flea more access to our son, than he hasn't taken. So when he throws that in my face I ask him where, were you on this and this day I told you come, but your new life was more important than your own son, right. He just stops talking and won't answer anything. I say enjoy your kids and let him miss as much as he wants, one day he will be sorry then it will be too late. All I have asked him is to stay in my kids life, my kids are going to love him, through thick and thin but he is not willing to see that.