In my healing as to this divorce, I am at times taken back as to the polar opposites of things in life.
My ex was in many ways opposite of me, but also we balanced each other out. Of course he thought this was lovely & worked hard to get me to see all he saw, when I did of course, the fun & games were over, so he quit trying (was game player, I didn't know..).
But I am Christian, so is he (of course that's debatable as he called himself one but his actions are pretty opposed to this)..
Where I am going with this is, I think sometimes GOD Allows these polar happenings in life / distinct on purpose & I am not sure why other than, here's this precious little child of yours, who is gifted, you recognize this. Then along comes SIREN, to steal the show.. I have a feeling where there are Angelic types of gifts, then also will be the opposing evil-like forces. IF YOU CAN (this is what I do), TRY to keep focused on the good, your daughter, the gifts that you believe are Divine, from God, that she seems to you to be gifted spiritually..
In my experience.. it is inevitable, that throughout history/ the bible/ etc.. that when you have gifting, blessings of great nature/ there are the opposing that will try to tear it down.
The challenge may be to focus harder on your daughter, TUNE OUT SIREN LADY..
you may have to head talk it, a lot...
but what DOES MATTER?
keep focusing on that.
That's part of our healing in divorce too.
FOCUS with all of our might on what DOES MATTER.
I actually feel God Has Shown me some AWESOME things that maybe if X would have stayed I would not have been shown. I loved & do love still the X, but he is choosing to seemingly not walk in what God Is Calling him to walk (at least what he told me then his actions).
I believe there will always be polarities of energy / where we have to deal with difficulties.
Focus on that precious little one & just ignore
ex's play thing.. you've got much more important things to think about.
& just let her (your daugher) know that. She will hear you in her heart. Trust that.