I'm sorry you are going through this.
I think that there are many that don't think twice about their marriage vows.
Like the others say, don't confront him & maybe not your wife either until you gather yourself.
If you have a preacher, you might go talk them or a mental health person in your area.? Try to get ahold of someone to get this off your chest so you can plan what to do next.
Well I had to take the day off I couldn't make it to work im staying at a hotel still feel bad how could that ***** kick me like a dog there a age difference between us but I don't deserve what she did
I have no one she's probably living it up laughing with that guy I knew our age difference was too great cheating with a younger guy its my ****en house I can't show my face over there its too humiliating sitting in my hotel room drinking on this mlk I hate both of them sooo much
You mentioned the house is yours. Is it just your name on the deed? If so maybe in the morning you get go to the police and see if they can intervene and have her leave the home if you explain your situation to them. It is just a thought! But, I definitely would not go over there when you are upset or alone. My thoughts are with you and wish you well!!
I hear you, I didn't go to work today either, just couldn't (at least the holiday is an excuse but tomorrow is another day and we must face it). Do you think it is immaturity on her part or maybe she was just after money? Whatever the reason, what she did was WRONG. If she was unhappy and wanted to be with someone else she should have had the decency to tell you and end the marriage first. Stay strong, be calm. I think your going to a hotel was a good idea, to give yourself some safe space to be alone and let the emotions subside. Don't be humiliated to go back to your house, you have nothing to be ashamed of, she does. Remember to keep your cool, show her you are above this nonsense. Good luck.