When my husband moved all his stuff out of the house, he left me a letter on our bed. What I remember most about that letter is that he said "he hoped we could be friends one day and enjoy our children and all their accomplishments together"!! How do you be friends with a man that has accused you of forcing him to take his antidepressants, says he doesn't enjoy your company, says he only married you as an escape out of his crazy family, accuses you of having an STD, and so on and so on!!! I'm going to need a lot of psychological counseling to get to that point. I'm proud of myself if I can just remain calm while we both sit in our lawyer's office!