Well thank you it’s nice to know there are other women going through the same thing I’m dealing with. Sometimes it’s just a lonely world out there and I get tired of asking family & friends to hang with or just talk to about this. l really do struggle with the Loneliness part of it. Starting over is very scary for me at the age of 48 I feel like this shouldn’t be happening but unfortunately it is.
I also get the phone records & 360. We also tried marriage counseling but after the fact found out he was still talking to her the whole time. it’s just seems so ridiculous to be doing this.
He also blames me for not trying harder in our marriage. When he obviously is not making any kind of attempts.
I’m just so tired of all the arguing and screaming matches it’s taking a toll on me and the kids! I haven’t yet taken any kind of action as far as a lawyer. I feel as if he wants me to start the process so he won’t look so bad.
You are correct I need to start paying more attention to his actions and less on the words. This makes sense to me because we all know actions speak louder than words.
Trust how do you ever get that back? Seriously after all the lies and sneaking around how could you ever feel comfortable! I just wish I was dealt the hand of just going our separate ways but instead I know he would end of with her and I think that’s what hurts the most!