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Passive aggressive?
Anyone else have a very passive aggressive Ex?
I'm trying to find the best modes of communication to navigate his behavior. For example, I need him to look for an item to return to my daughter's school. I was very clear - I needed the item soon, NOW, I said. He didn...
Views: 121 Replies: 1
Last Post: Nov 10, 2021 9:36am
by SF Gal
by SF Gal
After 16years of marriage last night hubby left
I am so alone no family no kids nothing but me . How to move on after this I dont even know where to begin.
Views: 205 Replies: 4
Last Post: Nov 10, 2021 9:27am
by SF Gal
by SF Gal
I feel dead inside
I’ve been married for 7 years I’m so unhappy he cheats he lies he hides his phone, I’ve tried to end things but I never go through it fully , he always tells me it’s because I don’t put out enough but with all he’s done I don’...
Views: 221 Replies: 5
Last Post: Nov 10, 2021 8:00am
by SF Gal
by SF Gal
What is more important ?
What is more important in an relationship that will survive a long long time?
Being IN Love with your husband Or
Just Love Him
Or just Like him
Been married for over 25 yrs
Views: 167 Replies: 1
Last Post: Nov 10, 2021 7:16am
by Abbey Seiden
by Abbey Seiden
Research - seeking volunteers
Hi, I'm new on this site - here. I have been separated since May 2019 and now I'm legally divorced. Seeking other divorced moms to try and better understand the struggles we are all facing: physical, mental and spiritual. If you are interested in helping me help othe...
Views: 99 Replies: 0
Last Post: Nov 10, 2021 7:08am
by Abbey Seiden
by Abbey Seiden
So confused
I filed for a divorce in July, he was incarcerated at the time I filed. He recently got out and has created havoc in not only my life but our children’s! He showed up at 3:30 am pounding on the door and yelling and ended up stealing my vehicle key along with ta...
Views: 133 Replies: 1
Last Post: Nov 10, 2021 4:32am
by Beth
by Beth
visit conversations
should non-custodial parent be allowed to discuss their "new life" with the child during visits.. for example showing pictures of the non-custodial parent's new child or discussing their new house, pets or life in general
Views: 100 Replies: 0
Last Post: Nov 8, 2021 10:52am
by Charlie
by Charlie
Divorce questions..... HELP
My name is Amber and in recently fully divorced and I have questions about divorce and the home. The home is in my name and even the mortgage. We agreed that my now ex husband would stay in the home for the child's sake as it was the home she was born in. Recently my...
Views: 218 Replies: 3
Last Post: Nov 6, 2021 6:12pm
by Theresa
by Theresa
Easter Holiday and Spring Break
I have Easter Sunday this year (we rotate) and he has the first half of Spring Break. They overlap this year. It doesn't specify what should happen in this case. What should we do? (Compromise/conversations are hard for us)
Views: 107 Replies: 1
Last Post: Nov 6, 2021 5:17am
by Jan
by Jan
Am I responsible to take care of him ???
Hi Everyone
I have been married for 24 years planning to file for divorce because he gets me in my nerves every time we argue he always want to have the last word being right
He never agrees with me on anything I say
I am tired of him being disrespectful to me and...
Views: 124 Replies: 2
Last Post: Nov 5, 2021 10:21pm
by Amalia
by Amalia
Divorce has been finalized now I’m regretting my decision
I was married 18 years and dated him for 2 years . Through the relationship it has been rocky . I would say we were sad or mad most of our years . I have threatened divorce the years and he has too. Well one day I got tired of the fussing and yelling and idol threats...
Views: 173 Replies: 1
Last Post: Nov 5, 2021 5:30am
by Mary
by Mary
I filed for divorce In october
So me and my husband filed together, yea he came with me to the courthouse on 10/22 to file divorce easy right, now we got our divorce hearing and it is set on 2/11/2021. We have been separated since June and I left due to emotional and verbal abuse and all. During t...
Views: 118 Replies: 1
Last Post: Nov 5, 2021 5:26am
by Mary
by Mary
so incredibly sad and mad
My husband of 20 years has asked for a divorce. he does not love !e anymore and is not happy. We have been together 24 yrs and I have stayed with him thru lying, cheating and drinking. It has come down to the fact that I don't like being around him or his drunk frien...
Views: 274 Replies: 8
Last Post: Nov 4, 2021 4:48pm
by Angie
by Angie
Unknown Future
Hello Everyone
Getting angry, mad or a temper for silly things is it normal ?
This happens most of the time during my marriage it is very hard to communicate with him without an argument
What causes a man to have a temper ?
I suggested him to join an anger Ma...
Views: 152 Replies: 2
Last Post: Nov 2, 2021 9:44pm
by Lydia
by Lydia
Weak and looking for strength
I've been married 21 years. I asked for a divorce about 3 months now, and actually started the filing last week. I got super sad and depressed so I stopped it. I know for sure this is what I want but not sure how to actually go through with it. My husband has lied, c...
Views: 188 Replies: 3
Last Post: Nov 2, 2021 8:22pm
by Mae
by Mae
Needs some ideas
What is the best way to forget and not think about an ex and I do keep my self distracted and stay in contact with the people I Love ❤️
Been divorced for a year now
Views: 157 Replies: 3
Last Post: Nov 2, 2021 2:18am
by Mimi C
by Mimi C
Fear of leaving
Hi ladies,
I have been married over 20years, and for years I have been wanting out of this marriage. The thing is I'm terrified how to do this, I want to know how women out there had the courage to go. Did you find a place then leave. Did you plan the exit careful...
Views: 198 Replies: 3
Last Post: Nov 1, 2021 3:44pm
by Sherry
by Sherry
Feel lonely
Been married for over 25years even though we have date nights, travel one a year, do activities together but why I feel lonely in this marriage ?
Why I feel this way?
What can be missing in our marriage ?
Views: 179 Replies: 5
Last Post: Oct 31, 2021 9:53pm
by Sulma
by Sulma
together 11 yrs.
I met my wife July 16th 2010. and aside from one week I went to see my family have been with her every single day since. We married in April 2016. I am not sure why I did not see it or chose not to see it for so long but she is very controlling and manipulative. Some...
Views: 128 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 30, 2021 3:47am
by Julia
by Julia
Husband's porn addiction
I am totally lost. I woke one morning back in February of 2020 and everything in my life changed in a blink of an eye. I had been married to my husband for twenty years. He was my second husband and raised my 27 year old daughter since she was 4. She had no relations...
Views: 165 Replies: 3
Last Post: Oct 28, 2021 4:53pm
by catherine
by catherine
Ealamo612@gmail.com
I'm the one cheating
Views: 108 Replies: 0
Last Post: Oct 27, 2021 5:46pm
by Erica
by Erica
Should I stay?
My husband has been overseas. We’ve been married a year and a half. We only stayed together for about a month after marrying and I returned back to the US while he stayed in Thailand. We’ve been arguing since I got back from Thailand after Covid hit over...
Views: 200 Replies: 9
Last Post: Oct 27, 2021 4:32pm
by Sarah
by Sarah
Divorce
My husband left me after 47 years of marriage to our mutual good friend. He now wants me to sell my home. We took equity release on our property so would have to pay the company off. I really don't want to sell. I would love to be able to pay him his share and remain...
Views: 114 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 26, 2021 3:26am
by Ka
by Ka
Sexting.
Hi there to anyone that can advise me of my situation..I am currently going through a divorce..been together 5 but married for 2 of them.he has been sexting quite alot and even on our wedding night...(i have no proof to show of this.).he still continues to do this an...
Views: 153 Replies: 0
Last Post: Oct 22, 2021 10:32pm
by Cheryl Di salvo
by Cheryl Di salvo
Wishing I'd just stop breathing
I'm 41. I've been with my husband for 15 years. He was my absolute best friend. We did everything together. Went on walks daily, traveled the world. I have no family, and we were trying for a child the past 2 years. We never...
Views: 281 Replies: 3
Last Post: Oct 22, 2021 7:32am
by Ceci
by Ceci
Sorry for my Ex
Hello
I filed for divorce 1 year ago after a 32 years of marriage the reason was he was always controlling and he always needed to have the last word in our relationship
I got tired of him treating me this way and during an argument he threatened me just because I...
Views: 156 Replies: 5
Last Post: Oct 20, 2021 8:30am
by Kelly
by Kelly
Adult children
My daughters are 27, 26, and 24. The oldest two both got married this summer. My husband of 30 years has left me for another woman completely unexpectedly and my daughters are devastated. They have cut off all contact with their dad and are incredibly supportive of m...
Views: 151 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 20, 2021 6:22am
by Sara
by Sara
Divorcing after 30 years and he has a new women already
My emotions are all over the place. He was abusive,mean and had no empathy. It stills hurts he has already replaced me. How do you move on and stop the hurt?
Views: 387 Replies: 3
Last Post: Oct 20, 2021 6:02am
by Sara
by Sara
Divorcing after 15 years
My husband is a great man,husband,father..It’s just I need more excitement in my life. I knew once our child wasn’t needing diapers and bottles anymore that I wanted to start roaming..My husband decided he doesn’t want a wife who neglects him and ou...
Views: 166 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 20, 2021 5:35am
by Sara
by Sara
I don’t know whether we are over
This may see a ridiculous question but I don’t know what to do, or do I and I just dare not make that decision. We have been married for 27years and have always been so loving and close. But over the last few years thing have been difficult and I don’t kn...
Views: 165 Replies: 3
Last Post: Oct 18, 2021 11:48am
by Kelly
by Kelly
lawyer reviews
Avoid the lawyer reviews and go by word of mouth from friends or support groups, I found anything reviewing lawyers involves lawyers. Their way of marketing and tooting their own horn. I found my lawyer from prestigious "reviews" and she destroyed my life. Do yoursel...
Views: 137 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 17, 2021 7:47am
by Serena
by Serena
After 20yrs& In only 2 months
Me and my husband are married 20yrs. We have been separated for 2 months now cause I didn’t answer his text to give him half the rent after he totally broke me down bashed me called me every name you can think of. Even said he wanted to punch me in the face and...
Views: 173 Replies: 2
Last Post: Oct 15, 2021 2:15pm
by Colleen
by Colleen
Husband started his own business regardless of how I felt
My husband left an amazing paying job to be self employed. He has no health insurance and work is sporadic with him making alot or nothing. I begged mt husband to stay at his old job and he stated how unhappy he was. I tried to give him the benefit of the doubt and t...
Views: 129 Replies: 4
Last Post: Oct 12, 2021 2:06pm
by Gusia
by Gusia
Boring husband
Hello Everyone
Last week we celebrated our 30th wedding anniversary
We live a decent life and I love my husband but he is too boring (I don’t like him but I love him)
He doesn’t talk too much even if we go places to eat, go to the movies, go for a walk...
Views: 129 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 12, 2021 12:29pm
by Sandy
by Sandy
Confused about husband decision to leave me
We are both in our 60’ s
How long does it take to heal a broken heart after 3 decades of marriage
After an silly argument he filed for divorce just because I did not agree with him ( most of our arguments is ?we are never in the same page and he always think...
Views: 181 Replies: 3
Last Post: Oct 11, 2021 5:14pm
by Angela
by Angela
Is Love Enough?
Is Love enough to keep a long marriage ?
Even though we do not comunícate enough
Can Love conquers all obstacle?
Views: 118 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 11, 2021 5:11pm
by Angela
by Angela
After 30 years of marriage
Hello
After 30 years of marriage I still don’t know what is love ❤️
What real Love should feel ?
Sometimes my husband is disrespectful to me
He does not have patience and I do Very much
He gets angry for things that is not something to...
Views: 166 Replies: 3
Last Post: Oct 11, 2021 2:46pm
by Samantha M
by Samantha M
Cheater after 30 years
My husband of 30 years (35 years together) has left me to pursue a relationship with another woman that I found out he's been involved with for 5 years. I'm beyond broken. I've been with him since I was 17. I've never lived alone and until this I considered him my be...
Views: 142 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 11, 2021 5:55am
by Teresa
by Teresa
He is forever 17 yrs old and I think its time to say good-bye
I have been married for 10 yrs as of last week. And this entire time he has shown that he is super immature and selfish. I was working to keep us afloat and he could not work bc he had to wait for USA paperwork. In the meantime he started talking to his ex GF online...
Views: 135 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 11, 2021 5:36am
by Tessa
by Tessa
HOW TO BRING BACK YOUR EX LOVER AND RESTORE BROKEN MARRIAGE 2021
My name is Alicia Leonard. I am here to tell the entire world how I got my husband back. It all started when my husband cheated on me with another woman. He changed his feelings towards me and the kids and eventually broke our 6 years marriage. I was confused and str...
Views: 159 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 11, 2021 12:52am
by Jessica
by Jessica
I feel stuck.
I have so much to write but I will try to summarize it. I've been married for about 4 years now. Our relationship was great in the beginning. I realized now I was being love bombed. The person I'm married to feels like a completely different person from the beginning...
Views: 173 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 8, 2021 5:59am
by Tina
by Tina
Asking for a divorce
I got married when I was 24 and my spouse was 23. They had just left their last relationship (which happened to be their first EVER).I sometimes feel as though I made the wrong decision in marrying them. Now that I've gotten older and we've been through ALOTTTT. I'm...
Views: 310 Replies: 1
Last Post: Oct 7, 2021 5:07am
by Tina
by Tina
Not so ready... But decisive
I have been married for less than a year and my 1st year was marked with complete lies and dishonesty. The infedility let to a child been born and have found it difficult to move on especially due to lack of honesty and openness from him. Overtime growing emotional d...
Views: 183 Replies: 3
Last Post: Oct 5, 2021 11:08am
by Kano
by Kano
Divorce in California
Hi, I am looking for some advice/help. My husband filed a divorce unexpectedly. We have been married for 5yrs but I havent been working and just been a full time student, he was paying for all the bills. He had different bank accounts that I never had access to and s...
Views: 140 Replies: 2
Last Post: Oct 3, 2021 7:11pm
by Sara
by Sara
Why I feel this way??
Hello
My divorce is finally finalized is it normal to cry
I do not know if I am crying of happiness of sadness ?
When I think about him I feel sad and start to cry even though I do not want him back
How can I get him out of my mind ?
I was married to him for 30...
Views: 298 Replies: 2
Last Post: Oct 3, 2021 11:18am
by Sasha
by Sasha
Decision is made... now to strategize my safe exit
You can only have immense hope and avoid the obvious for so long. I know what I know, and that is that this is NOT where I belong.
I have (foolishly, I know) placed every egg in this basket and am starting from less than nothing (no car, no income (I get social se...
Views: 210 Replies: 2
Last Post: Oct 3, 2021 7:35am
by Glenda
by Glenda
It’s time
I’ve been separated from my husband for nine years. After years of hoping somehow miraculously we may get back together, I’m finally starting to realize that it’s time to move on. We have two daughters together. The only thing I’m concerned ab...
Views: 184 Replies: 2
Last Post: Oct 3, 2021 7:29am
by Glenda
by Glenda
Getting house ready
One of the more difficult task is staying in the relationship and having civility without him knowing for sure I will seek divorce. So I can maintain any amount of cooperation or help i can get from him.
I really don't like this deception game I am playing but I h...
Views: 167 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 28, 2021 7:33pm
by Angela
by Angela
Elizabeth
Hello Everyone in this Forum
Hope you are all well safe and emotionally strong for whatever life brings us 🙏
I had filed for divorce last year from an emotionally control ex that threatened me after 35 yrs of marriage since the divorce is not final yet and I hav...
Views: 125 Replies: 1
Last Post: Sep 27, 2021 8:11am
by Kelly
by Kelly
Sad and lonely in the aftermath
I am not sure how to deal with this pain of the level of loss I feel in my life. I had already lost 2 boyfriends to suicide and now I’m divorced from the love of my life. It was a 5 year marriage. I never loved anyone so deeply in my life or ever found to meet...
Views: 343 Replies: 4
Last Post: Sep 25, 2021 8:42am
by Ann-Marie
by Ann-Marie