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Kellie

After a Divorce

Hi Everyone My divorce is almost finalized after 35 years of marriage (I filed for divorce ) I do not know why I am feeling some butterflies Did anybody in this forum felt anything different after the divorce was finalized? Such as Sad Nervous Happy Free...

Views: 157 Replies: 5

Last Post: Aug 31, 2021 4:31am
by Blair

Francisca

Unhappy marriage

What is the reason my husband of 30 yrs feels unhappy and still stays in this marriage I know he is unhappy even though he does not tell me There are times I asked him but he said he is happy I wonder Is it because he is over 60yrs old or because whatever we build...

Views: 194 Replies: 3

Last Post: Aug 30, 2021 10:30am
by Kelly

Ally R

Divorce when already in common ground

21f here. I'm currently beginning the first steps to getting divorced. My ex husband and I have been separated for almost 2 years(yes, we married early and separated a year in, it happens). He just hired the divorce lawyer and we're going to go the divorce mediation...

Views: 151 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 29, 2021 7:00am
by Zeb

ellen harding

problems with my home

The house is in my husband's name. It's refied, but since I'm not on the deed the debt is entirely his. This is horrible. We have massive shared debts and I have big bills not his I have to pay every month. He doesn't want to get divorced, but is a very reas...

Views: 170 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 27, 2021 7:55am
by Kelly

On a rollercoaster ride

I am moving out from my husband place in next few days and going to hometown for divorce. I haven't told my husband yet about my decision. I am feeling like I am in a rollercoaster ride going through all the emotions. My body is feeling shaky for hiding this decisio...

Views: 155 Replies: 3

Last Post: Aug 27, 2021 7:48am
by Kelly

Shreya

Regarding Separation in Germany

Hi, I have gotten married in India and have been married for 3 years living in Germany with my ex-husband. My husband and I are separated since past 1.5 months. He has moved out of the apartment. Do I have to legally start the separation process or has it already...

Views: 208 Replies: 0

Last Post: Aug 27, 2021 6:20am
by Shreya

Jane Steggall

Pitfalls to avoid

My husband of 9 years wants a divorce after a particularly difficult time during lockdown alongside home renovation. I acknowledge that we have had many issues over the years, but have always hoped we would work things out, so it is quite an emotionally painful time....

Views: 192 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 24, 2021 5:05am
by Kaz

Laura S

Looking to support other women

Hi ladies! I got divorced 3 years ago. It was absolutely the hardest and worst thing I've ever experienced, but now that I've grown and learned so much about myself I couldn't be happier that I did it. I realize that I didn't have support during my divorce, and I'm...

Views: 197 Replies: 3

Last Post: Aug 23, 2021 9:50pm
by Kisha

Angela

covert narcissistic emotional abuser exit strategy

Hi All, I was wondering how people handled telling a spouse that was a covert narcissistic emotional abuser that you wanted a divorce? Did you stay in the home afterwards? Was it hard to sell the home? Did they prolong the divorce? Did they get darker and nasti...

Views: 220 Replies: 6

Last Post: Aug 23, 2021 2:32pm
by Allie

Ashley S.

SUPPORT FROM OTHER WOMEN DURING THIS TIME

Hi all! My name is Ashley and I filed for divorce last month. I am in that fun waiting situation where we have to live under the same roof since there are no orders in place, until Sept 22 our mediation date. This has been PURE TORTURE, as this was my decision and no...

Views: 202 Replies: 3

Last Post: Aug 21, 2021 7:24am
by Alimonia Life

Ginger

Advice on Divorce

I'm trying to figure out if I should divorce my husband. We haven't even been married for a year and we've been having issues. We have a 6 month old together too. He hasn't had a job since we had our son and has been dragging his feet about getting one so I had to ge...

Views: 187 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 21, 2021 7:03am
by Alimonia Life

Shivani

Feeling weird

I am finally taking the step of divorce, going to my hometown in next 10 days and will be breaking this news of divorce from there only, to my husband. It's scary but mostly I feel numb. I am just not sure what to feel. It's very blur, I am very confused on what I...

Views: 174 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 20, 2021 3:59pm
by zc

Kathy

How do I keep living?

First off, I am NOT suicidal. I just don't know how to keep on living when he wants a bee life. I have been with him since I was 15. I am now 50. Do the math! 45 years as his significant other/wife. I am a wife, mother, care taker. I know nothing outside of this marr...

Views: 194 Replies: 3

Last Post: Aug 20, 2021 1:44pm
by Alimonia Life

Angel

Cannot handle husband

Hello I had enough of my husband of 35 years of marriage I want to file for divorce because we have a real estate business we manage together and repairs what is needed I cannot handle this business with him anymore most of our time together he likes to control ev...

Views: 288 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 19, 2021 10:02pm
by Alimonia Life

Lhea

Healing process after unexpected divorce

Who heals and move faster after 30 yrs of marriage Especially if it is (gray divorce) for a person that is over 60yrs old The MAN or WOMEN ?

Views: 222 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 19, 2021 11:47am
by Lhea

Michelle

Not sure 🤷🏻‍♀️

Would anyone in this forum would stay in a 20 yrs of marriage Only for Love ❤️ Even if I knew he does not like me You can’t change a person It is what it is You have to love and like the person as is

Views: 285 Replies: 4

Last Post: Aug 17, 2021 11:59am
by Michelle

Tiffany

Going to through a divorce

Hello I was wondering if anyone that went through a divorce knows this question I have an joint account with my ex husband ( divorce has not been final yet) he opened the account during Our marriage and add my name into this account Am I going to be entitle to 1/2...

Views: 183 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 17, 2021 11:50am
by Tiffany

Tina

Is this consider domestic violence

Is touching lightly (like pushing) from my shoulder during an argument and also long time ago pushed my chair when I was sitting also during an argument) he gets mad in about everything Is it consider domestic violence ?? And also at times called me names such as (...

Views: 192 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 17, 2021 11:44am
by Tina

Tatiyana

Stuck at home suffering while he lives his best life

I am stuck under the same roof with a man I am divorcing. He wanted the divorce and he is constantly rubbing in my face that he is a free by going out all the time, coming in late etc. You know, the games these men like to play to make us jealous and IT WORKS. But oh...

Views: 283 Replies: 6

Last Post: Aug 16, 2021 8:59am
by Kelly

Kathy

Too late now

I have been waiting for my divorce to be finalized after 33 yrs of marriage and I am 60yrs old my ex and I share a joint accounts but I stop withdrawing any money after filing for divorce 8 months ago I do not have any separate account under my name only jointly a...

Views: 223 Replies: 4

Last Post: Aug 16, 2021 7:34am
by Ashley S.

Vixi

break up of the long term relationship

i discovered this forum by chance.I dont really have anybody to talk to right now,our friends are joint friends and i am not that close to my family, so i decided to write here.I feel sad,lost and hopeless right now.I have reallt hard time coping with the break of my...

Views: 141 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 16, 2021 6:48am
by Moi

Jennifer

Crazy Feeling

Why I still feel sad after I filed for divorce 9 months ago even though I did not want to stay in this marriage after 30 years of marriage?

Views: 153 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 16, 2021 6:22am
by Moi

Denise

What job do I do next

So.. I just have a lot of emotions and just don’t know what I should do next. I’m not working.. I have 2 kids. I was in the process of starting a nursing business, not up and running. Do I go back to school? Do I just get a full-time job? I’m so lost.

Views: 158 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 16, 2021 6:15am
by Moi

Shivani

Scared

I am planning to separate from my husband as he has been very abusing in past and because of his selfish nature. I have been planning it from few months now. Though I have planned things and all but when I think about actually making the final plan and leave, I get s...

Views: 197 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 14, 2021 6:05pm
by Casey

Shanna

Blindsided! Have two kids

Hi- I’m new to this, but I know i need to speak to others that are going through something similar. My husband just told me a week ago that he has fallen out of love with me. He said he has felt this way for over a year (I had no idea) and was too embarrassed...

Views: 193 Replies: 5

Last Post: Aug 14, 2021 4:33pm
by Gem

Cecil

Lost feeling

We have been married for 25 yrs For some reason I don’t like being with him sometimes but I love him Why am I feeling this way? He does not talk much but when he is with other people he acts different (talkative , funny etc...) when he is home he is boring...

Views: 186 Replies: 5

Last Post: Aug 13, 2021 5:48pm
by Cecil

Krysten

Child emotional abuse

I need some advice. I know I should get a lawyer but I'm having difficult with financial retainers. My daughter has ran away from home, twice. This past time, (yesterday), she ran away and was missing for 8 hours after she chopped off her hair. She has stated she wan...

Views: 178 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 13, 2021 5:52am
by Moi

Pattie

Is Love enough

This month will be our 34 year wedding anniversary I hate my husband sometimes the way he treats me and my adults children ( he always like to control me and our children and I keep telling him that our kids are adults and they have Their own family and he does not...

Views: 173 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 12, 2021 10:01pm
by Mimi

Oct2ue

The future after what's done and said

After you shared your life with someone you loved,trusted and thought he was your soul mate.... Men are more ignorant self fish cold hearted to self pitty. Women fall for the unthinkable the concerns and giving there hearts out to rescue the man soul. We all try the...

Views: 134 Replies: 0

Last Post: Aug 12, 2021 8:29pm
by Oct2ue

Gladys

Desperate ex husband

Hello Everyone Been married for 34 years I am 60 yrs old I filed for divorce almost a year but it is not final yet I cannot believe my ex found someone new she seems the same age as my ex husband (he is 64yrs old) I do not know her and never seen her during our m...

Views: 173 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 12, 2021 5:43pm
by Gladys

Kathy Thrasher

Do I stay

I have been married for 28 years. I just found out after forgiving him before that he never ended his affair. I have irrefutable proof, but he still will not come clean. I don't know where to go from here. I know I deserve better, but I have been with him since we we...

Views: 155 Replies: 5

Last Post: Aug 12, 2021 10:50am
by Sarah K

Dawn

Numb

I was with my husband for 22 years and married for 18. We have 4 grown children. I was caught off guard when my husband told me he wanted a divorce and that he didn't love me any more. He said he had been falling out of love with me for 2 years. I worked a lot and di...

Views: 201 Replies: 5

Last Post: Aug 11, 2021 9:40am
by Light

Angelica

No more

Hello After 30yrs of being with my controlling husband I just left home without him knowing and filed for divorce I had enough of him and arguing over and over with the same topics (No more) There is no way he can change and never will now he is begging me to come...

Views: 204 Replies: 7

Last Post: Aug 10, 2021 7:44pm
by Angelica

Janice

Premature ejaculation and impotence

I was married for 34 years . My husband had PE our whole marriage and would never seek help, admit he had a problem or try to pleasure me . He asked for a divorce .over the phone . and listed very strange reasons why . I am devasted fit my children; I always wanted a...

Views: 157 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 10, 2021 6:59am
by Kelly

Jen

Separation

I have been with my husband for 8 years and married for 2 years. The last year and half had been really stressful for us trying to move house during Covid. There have been other stresses too. We finally move house and get to begin our new start and he tells me he wan...

Views: 181 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 8, 2021 1:05am
by Hayley

CindySJackson

Lost Drained Hurt

My spouse has been saying he has ED and hasn’t wanted anything to do with me. We had a talk over last weekend and I told him I needed him to show affection towards me spend time with me even if it was just watching a movie on the couch. He said he would try. Ov...

Views: 152 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 6, 2021 6:12am
by Kaz

Lilian

Miserable Husband

Why a miserable husband will not leave his wife after 35 years of marriage? Why MAN rather stay on a marriage that he is not happy with ? What are the causes?

Views: 262 Replies: 2

Last Post: Aug 5, 2021 9:32pm
by Lilian

Jet

filing taxes while getting a divorce

I made a deal with my husband to give him his half of our 2800 stimulus check as long as he would still file taxes as married filing jointly with me as we were in fact together the whole year of 2020. we went and had our taxes figured up and we were going to owe the...

Views: 188 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 5, 2021 5:48pm
by Angela

Lilia

A SAD feeling

It has been 10 months that I filed for divorce and the divorce still not finalized yet why I feel sad even though I definitely do not want to go back to him Been married for 33 years The reason I feel Sad also is because he is going to grow old alone since his sist...

Views: 169 Replies: 3

Last Post: Aug 5, 2021 5:37pm
by Angela

Mich

Divorce Negotiations

I met with my husband today to talk about our divorce and a possible settlement. It was nothing like I thought. I guess I hoped that we could agree on everything but I was sadly mistaken. I came out feeling defeated. I just wanted to go home and cry. I know that our...

Views: 185 Replies: 5

Last Post: Aug 4, 2021 4:58pm
by Mich

Michelle

Splitting expenses for college kids

Hello. I was divorced 5 years ago. My ex husband was very narcissistic and verbally abusive. I just found out that he stole a million dollars during our divorce. He still makes a lot more money than me and insists that I pay half of our kid’s college expenses o...

Views: 130 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 4, 2021 6:11am
by Monica Harris

Monica

A question

I am planning to divorce after 20 yrs to an narcissistic /controlling husband I cannot handle him anymore He always wants to have the final word (We owed our own business ) My question is After the divorce is finalized how is the joint account divided I will ju...

Views: 164 Replies: 6

Last Post: Aug 3, 2021 11:19pm
by Monica

Karen

Cheaper to stay married

Last week one of our handiman male friend told me that my husband told him that is “cheaper to stay in a marriage than to divorce”. Why don’t he leave than just because we have a business together (there is no excuse) he rather be miserable than le...

Views: 178 Replies: 4

Last Post: Aug 3, 2021 11:07pm
by Karen

Nadya

Made porn together, is it right to ask for it to be deleted?

Hello, I have recently made the decision that due to broken trust my marriage needs to be ended. We were together for about 10 years, married for less than 4. About 5 years ago we created a few porn accounts to make some extra money on the side. He has thousands o...

Views: 125 Replies: 4

Last Post: Aug 3, 2021 8:19pm
by Nadya

LexiAnn

Found his Porn

My husband has always been very particular about what I wear, which has never bothered me because I want him to find me attractive. But I just stumbled upon his "spank bank" of porn on his laptop and I am appalled and humiliated that he has me dressing up just like t...

Views: 131 Replies: 1

Last Post: Aug 3, 2021 5:17pm
by Angela

So much pain

Going through divorce… almost 2months since i left but pain so unbearable to the point i cant even eat, sleep, laugh and take a shower, i have a child and i push myself to take care of him. Its just everyday is a struggle. Everyday I remember everything about t...

Views: 177 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jul 31, 2021 12:13am
by Tatiyana

Mona

I want to leave

Hi Everybody First time on forum (Never been to one) I have been married for 38 years and I want to leave this long Marriage but I am afraid that my 66years old husband will have a heart attack because he has a heart condition (he never had a heart attack) his h...

Views: 144 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 28, 2021 9:08am
by Mona

Carli

No love 😩

Help!!! I’ve been married to my husband for 7 years. We got pregnant on our honeymoon so we never really got to be a married couple without kids. Almost immediately after the birth of our son, I lost all attraction to him. I thought it was from all the crazy...

Views: 284 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 28, 2021 4:37am
by Moi

Parental Alienation

Is anyone dealing with parental alienation? I’m in the midst of an acrimonious divorce and my husband is doing this to my son. He has turned him against me and is wanting to live with dad. My soon to be ex dropped all his trips (pilot) for the last two months...

Views: 129 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jul 27, 2021 7:58pm
by JP

Shivani

Worried about future

I feel very scared sometimes when planning for an exit. I sometimes fear the uncertainty in future. Will I be able to live peacefully later. I get worried that what if it takes too long for divorce proceedings, as my husband might not want to end it. I don't know bu...

Views: 179 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jul 27, 2021 6:45am
by Shivani