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Ashley S.

I feel lost and broken

About a month ago, my husband and I got into an argument. He left and stayed at a friend's house for 4 days and wouldn't even talk to me. He has now decided that he is no longer happy and hasn't been happy for a long time. This is news to me. Everything seemed as usu...

Views: 247 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 27, 2021 2:49am
by Kaz

Shan

31 years

I just found out today my husband wants a divorce. I shouldn’t be surprised really . We haven’t had a great 30 year run. In fact, in really believe I will be happier down the road. But it is still such a loss. We have a 14 year old who is obviously hurt....

Views: 157 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 27, 2021 2:12am
by Normalyn

barbara j

life insurance for minor

My divorce decree says that my ex must carry a 100,000 life insurance policy on our minor child. He passed away and only had 20,000 that he left to his new wife, do i have a claim against this ?

Views: 101 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 26, 2021 10:42am
by barbara j

Sherry

What rights do I have for my step son

Our son is 20 and he has disabilities and needs 24 7 care I have raised him since he was 4 his dad has his own health challenges. Do I have any rights for him to live with me where he has lived with me for 2 years in Kansas I also own the house my father bought fo...

Views: 91 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 26, 2021 5:10am
by Kaz

Mia

Mentally Drained

I am new here and hope I can get some insight to the craziness called my life. I apologize now if I sound like I am all over the place. But I just spent the last few days arguing, contacting an attorney, and more arguing. After almost 23 years of marriage I just can'...

Views: 174 Replies: 4

Last Post: Jan 25, 2021 5:56pm
by Kim

Ashley

Support

Hello, my name is Ashley and I have been with my I guess soon to be Ex for about 19 years now we have three children. I’m sorry for the long post I just need some support. I honestly should have known from the start of my relationship with him that something wa...

Views: 146 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jan 25, 2021 12:44pm
by Michelle

Gotconned

9 years of friendship plus 6 years of marriage...got conned by the man I love.

I met my husband in high school and I have always been in love with him. I loved him unconditionally and all I asked in return was to spend some time . Do some activities or even help me out in house work. After fifteen years of being together he tells his mom, my fa...

Views: 141 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 25, 2021 8:52am
by Gotconned

Nicegirl

My husband is bi sexual and cheated on me crazy multiple time

Hi, wonderful ladies, How do I start, my story is crazy and i still dont believe that this has happen to me. 2 month ago i caught my husband. i was checking his phone and through his bank account i learned that he has spent money somewhere ( i did not know that ti...

Views: 103 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jan 25, 2021 4:55am
by Kaz

Nicegirl

Thank you kaz

I really appreciate your words and advise. It really helped me thinking about my situation from logical point of view.

Views: 103 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 24, 2021 11:14pm
by Nicegirl

Sam

Child custody

Does anyone have experience with child custody and school districts? I live about an hour from my ex and we are both equal on paper (jobs, salary, home life, school districts, etc.). Our child starts school next year and we cannot decide on a school district so we ar...

Views: 123 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 24, 2021 2:36pm
by Sam

Nancy Grace

Divorce after Death Recourse

Our daughter was married to Y in Fairfax County Virginia, but he abandoned/deserted and kicked her out. She passed away 2019, any recourse as her parents? Our daughter was married to Matt in Virginia, but he abandoned her. She passed away 2019, any recourse as her pa...

Views: 90 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 24, 2021 1:49pm
by Kaz

Oli

Divorce in VA - how to make it quick?

Hi everyone! I hope someone can help me with suggestions. My husband and I live together. He has a major issues with an alcohol, which became worse since the May 2020. I cannot take it anymore and do not believe that he is going to change (how he promised me thous...

Views: 107 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 23, 2021 8:39pm
by Oli

Liz

Psychological evaluation

Hello, my husband and I are currently undergoing psychological evaluations. I have been fighting with my daughters (17 & 14) about once a week during my custodial weeks and I’m terrified it will affect custody. My daughters and I are currently in family therapy...

Views: 123 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 23, 2021 10:04am
by Liz

Derya

I need help

My husband of 23 year of marriage with 2 teenage kids want to get divorce he told me 4 months ago. Im in a desperate position and 2 days ago he told me the court order will be in my hand this week. In this 4 month he sometimes approachable sometimes doesnt even look...

Views: 173 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 23, 2021 6:06am
by Toni

Finding myself

Finding yourself after separation

I am looking for any advice on getting used to being on your own. I am recently separated and 2 of 3 kids have moved out. I am so used to being there for everyone else that I dont know what to do with myself. I live in a conservative city and dont have any single fri...

Views: 373 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 23, 2021 6:03am
by Toni

Amy

Confusion on how to handle husband's smartness about his infidelity

I've had my fair share of infidelity from a cheating spouse. Short story: My husband had been entangled in an affair with a junior colleague at work three years into our marriage and that had been going on for two years. I never had an inkling that was going on, unti...

Views: 163 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 23, 2021 5:59am
by Toni

Lucy

Feeling sorry

Hello Everyone This is my first time on this forum (Never done it before) I just filed for divorce after 40 yrs of marriage I am 63 yrs old He always like to be right and he is a controlling person... and verbally abusive calling me names during fights .... Why...

Views: 172 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jan 23, 2021 5:49am
by Toni

Lorie

Should I get a Divorce?

My husband cheated on me this past July with a girl from work and left me for three months. It came out of nowhere and I never thought he’d do such a thing. Eventually he came back home and we decided to work things out. I truly believe he is my special person....

Views: 166 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 22, 2021 11:47pm
by Toni

Melissa

Need advice...

I live in Nevada. My hopefully soon to be ex is the one who is our only income, I stopped working after the baby. Unfortunately he handles all the money, I am not on his bank accounts. I can’t see any of it. He gives me credit cards to use. I guess I am asking...

Views: 174 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jan 22, 2021 11:31pm
by Toni

Long_Gone

Financial woes -- do I have any recourse?

I feel so jilted right now, and I don't know if there's anything I can do. Ex and I divorced middle of 2019 after a really long, drawnout breakdown of our marriage. I was living out of country at the time and managed to get a divorce in the U.S.A. because of our last...

Views: 182 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 22, 2021 4:02pm
by Kaz

Diane

Divorcing after 40 yrs of marriage

My name is Diane and I'm getting a divorce after 40 years of marriage. We've definitely had our ups and downs and crazy as it seemed there was a lot of cheating going on, not by me. He even had a child with one of these women about 20 years ago. This last one just re...

Views: 225 Replies: 12

Last Post: Jan 21, 2021 2:48am
by Diane

Ann

Living with cheating husband

After 15 years of marriage and multiple affairs and dishonesty, I have decided to end our marriage, I haven’t filed yet but will, as soon as we meet with a mediator. Our house will not be able to go on the market until March (for tax purposes) so we are both li...

Views: 163 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 20, 2021 11:55am
by Light

Janae

Husband has a background and wants to be primary parent

So my husband and I are getting a divorce. I currently live in Arizona. since we will split I will be moving to Nevada to live with my family. I want to take my kids which my youngest is the only one we have together. He has been out of prison for 3 years but still c...

Views: 145 Replies: 6

Last Post: Jan 19, 2021 4:58pm
by Janae

teondra

yeah...

So I've been married to my husband for about 5-6 years and in that time we mostly been separated the whole time we've been married. It always happened after I become pregnant or after I have the baby. In the past he has cheated "talked" to other females. So fast forw...

Views: 106 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 19, 2021 12:10pm
by teondra

Rachel

Divorced at 25

Hello ladies. I wanted to write this because I feel like I am in need of people to help me get through this. I am going through a divorce, only after a year of being married. On top of that I am only 25. I wanted to work things out, but he did not. I am struggling. I...

Views: 134 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jan 18, 2021 6:14am
by Kaz

Blake

My wife divorced me and took my baby girl with her. I'm legally able to see her whenever I want but she changed her phone number and moves around alot so I can't see my daughter

Views: 159 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 18, 2021 5:29am
by Kaz

Betty

35 years together and he’s divorcing me

10 years ago, my husband had a midlife crisis and walked out on me and our two kids. He didn’t visit them more than twice in a year and barely emailed them. He was too busy meeting other women (committing adultery) and didn’t look after his kids for even...

Views: 382 Replies: 15

Last Post: Jan 18, 2021 5:23am
by Betty

Diane

Stuck

Coming upon my 25 year wedding anniversary and I want out of my marriage. Our interests and hobbies are not aligned. I’m working my ass off and he’s golfing and playing. Socially and politically we are divergent. Sex is non existent and he’s distant...

Views: 159 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 18, 2021 3:59am
by Finding myself

Aal

Divorcing after 34 years

My husband of 34 years has decided he wAnts a divorce. In November he confessed he was leaving me. The following week was my Birthday my kids had me over for dinner and he was mad he was not told and invited. He finally left a week ago. Now it is like ripping off a b...

Views: 188 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 18, 2021 3:48am
by Leaanne

Lea

My husband left after 26 years

My husband walked out after 26 years together we where married 9 of those years. He stopped loving me & I sensed it 2 yrs before. I had that gut wrenching feeling. He was a coward he stayed with me for 2 years before he left I started suffering major anxiety & depr...

Views: 153 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 17, 2021 10:27am
by Lea

Yessenia

Courage to bring up Divorce

Hi there I’ve been married for 4 years and I am in more of a roommate type of relationship. I am no longer physically attracted to him and I know I don’t see a future with him . I’m looking for any advice on how to bring up divorce since he will...

Views: 144 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 17, 2021 5:00am
by Kaz

sylvia berg

Divorce after 35 years

My husband decided he wanted a divorce after 35 years. I was a social worker for 23 years. Short side of it. My son died in 2012 at the age of 21 from a heroin overdose. My heart is broken because with all the resources he had I couldn’t save him. I found him d...

Views: 190 Replies: 5

Last Post: Jan 17, 2021 1:38am
by Lea

Stayingsafe

How to proceed with divorce

Please help! My soon to be ex (stbx) is very narcissistic and is very emotionally abusive to me. He is also that way to his mother and other people in his life. I'm afraid someday he will be like that to our daughter. She is only 21 months old right now. He wants to...

Views: 244 Replies: 4

Last Post: Jan 16, 2021 10:00pm
by Moorea

Renee

Advice on relocation

Our state says that the primary custodial parent cannot relocate with the kids more than 60 miles. My attorney is stating that there is no way around this. That I can send him a letter stating why I want to move but he can deny it and then we have to go to court and...

Views: 115 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jan 16, 2021 1:26am
by KAZ

Michelle

Husband lied about entire life

If you found out your husband lied about events in his life, his education, but being in the military and being a vet, what would you do? Now imagine you found this out and that he cheated on you during a pandemic. 😢😢😢😢 Help!

Views: 187 Replies: 5

Last Post: Jan 15, 2021 1:37pm
by Michelle

Amanda

My cheating soon to be ex husband

So I have been in a bad situation with my husband for the entire 3 years we have been together we have 1 child together who is almost one years old he is in the military and I have always found dating sites and apps on his phone but never any conversations I don̵...

Views: 178 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jan 12, 2021 5:40pm
by Crispina

Mary Smith

ex and paying the bills

My ex didn't believe in paying bills. He made sure he didn't have any money to make me pay them. (financial abuse) Now, I'm trying to divorce him, and wanted me to file bankruptcy. So, I can pay all his bills and the bankruptcy. I said no. His attorney wants to lay a...

Views: 120 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 12, 2021 3:40am
by Kaz

Renee

Relocation

Views: 120 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 11, 2021 8:25am
by Renee

Welshchick

Hi need divorce advice

Hi all. Im looking to divorce my husband of 13 years. We have three children together. I feel as tho i dont want to be here anymore and i only stayed the last few years for the kids. But im not sure how much more i can take. He has no idea i want a divorce. Everyt...

Views: 140 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 11, 2021 8:04am
by Welshchick

Lindsay

Do you need emotional support or help?

Hi ladies! My name is Lindsay. My divorce was final almost exactly 3 years ago. I've come a long way. I am now remarried and we have a combined family of 8 kids. I completely understand the pain, sadness, and frustration you are going through. I am now a relations...

Views: 156 Replies: 2

Last Post: Jan 10, 2021 9:38am
by Sandy

Crissy Lynn

Anxiety & Hurt

Hi! I am new to the group. My Dr recommended therapy, but I just cannot justify that over this particular situation. I feel like if I go, I will leave just as upset as entering. My situation is simple. Met a man, he did everything right, we married 18 months in...onc...

Views: 231 Replies: 8

Last Post: Jan 10, 2021 7:13am
by Toni

Cammafacation

Vent: Going through a divorce with our two kids but now he says he wants them

Hello! So yeah, I married the wrong man. I had very low self worth and married the first guy that looked at me. 10 years later we have 2 kids and I couldn't take his constant "disappearing" and literally telling me in therapy "I just don't care about you and how y...

Views: 105 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 10, 2021 7:03am
by Toni

Christy

Just plain tired....

I’ve been with my husband every since we were young. He was so sweet and caring at first. We had our first child when I was 19 and then his true colors started coming out. We now have been together for 16 years and have 4 kids. My husband has a stressful hard j...

Views: 173 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 10, 2021 6:37am
by Toni

Heather

Still in love with ex husband

Does anyone else regret the decision they made? I have been split up with my husband since May divorced since September. We were married for 14 years together for almost 16. I met him when I was 15 years old and married him when I was 17. I thought I was trapped in a...

Views: 166 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 6, 2021 6:52pm
by Heather

Starling

Not backing down

Hello, I’ve been reading some posts on this board and have such respect and admiration for all the strong women here! I recently decided to end my marriage. I have wanted to do this for a long time- I was very sick (stage 4 cancer) for a while, and he wasnR...

Views: 141 Replies: 1

Last Post: Jan 2, 2021 5:16pm
by Michelle

Diane

Saw this quote ,

I’m always disappointed when a liars pants don’t actually catch on fire 🔥

Views: 142 Replies: 0

Last Post: Jan 2, 2021 2:57pm
by Diane

separation

so here it goes i left my husband due to arguments and him being physical since this after i left 4 days later another woman was introduced into his life with my 2 children he denied anything was going on and claimed these where just friends i didnt know this woman i...

Views: 244 Replies: 3

Last Post: Jan 2, 2021 1:57pm
by Michelle

Steph

I lost myself

So I've never posted on a forum, but 2 weeks ago I told my husband I wanted a divorce. We got together when I was 19 and he was 24 and are now 36 and 31 with 2 kids. Since having the children I have done everything for them. All the cooking, cleaning, homework, baths...

Views: 290 Replies: 8

Last Post: Dec 29, 2020 10:29am
by RLee

Michelle

What a mess!

So here it goes...this is the first I’ve ever posted anything like this. I’ve been Married for almost 15 years now And managed to create 4 amazing children through the process but now face heart ache. My husband during the early years of marriage I found...

Views: 280 Replies: 7

Last Post: Dec 28, 2020 8:54pm
by Kaz

Liz

Trying to process

My marriage has had problems for a long time. My soon to be x is an alcoholic. Two years ago it got so bad, and I was so desperate, I was ready to leave. Instead, I called my mother-in-law. We arranged an intervention. He went to two intensive outpatient programs but...

Views: 248 Replies: 5

Last Post: Dec 28, 2020 6:37am
by Kaz